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Does your divorce have to be a dramatic affair?

Most people do not enter into their marriages with the idea that they will eventually get divorced. Still, marriages come to an end all the time, and you may now face this situation yourself. You have likely heard horror stories about the legal process involved with divorce, and some of your close friends or family may even encourage you to take your soon-to-be ex for all that he or she is worth.

You may have a different idea in mind as far as how you want to approach your case. Though revenge-seeking certainly comes up in numerous cases, if you do not want to follow that route -- which is a wise thought -- you can work toward a more amicable process.

Conduct an assessment

Before you move forward with divorce, make sure it is the action you feel best suits your situation. In some cases, individuals may face marital issues that seem insurmountable in the moment but that they can actually work through if given time. Of course, that does not mean that individuals should try to make a relationship work when it no longer does. Each marriage is different, and the decision to divorce is unique to you and your spouse.

Determine what method to use

When many people think of divorce, they often think of courtroom drama, especially since that is what happens so often on television and in the news. However, your divorce case does not have to be filled with back-and-forth arguments in a courtroom. Instead, you may want to consider an alternative dispute resolution method like mediation. This method takes place outside of the courtroom, and though both you and the other party can have legal representation, a third-party mediator works to keep negotiations on track.

Remain respectful

Options like mediation work best when both parties agree to remain respectful, but even if you do not use mediation, maintaining a healthy respect for your soon-to-be ex could allow your case to go more smoothly. By considering his or her needs as well as your own, you may have the ability to reach a settlement agreement that you can both feel comfortable with and not have to go through dispute after dispute.

Consult with an attorney

In order to find the best approach to your divorce case, you may want to do more than take advice from friends and family. Speaking with a Massachusetts attorney regarding laws associated with divorce and your specific options could give you a better idea about how to handle your case.

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